Pretty Asian Women: Why do We Love Asian Women?

 I love sexy Asian women: I have often wondered and asked myself why do I always seem to enjoy the presence of an Asian female?  I frankly am not sure – since I am not simply trying to get laid, but I will explore a few possible reasons.

Sometimes I think I have lost my mind; since I travel from USA to Asia on 20 hour airplane flights to meet asian women.  I often put up with smelly and crowded cities in Asia, the internet speed sucks in most of the poor countries of Asia, and the 100+ degree weather can really drain you as soon as you step outside the door etc.

However, Dean Cortez and Simon Heong has put together a list of a few reason why we like Asian women so much and what you should consider to meet Asian women.

learn-moreTake a look at the article, and let me know what do think?   You can add your comments at the end of this article.  Here is the article:

The physical appeal of sexy Asian women is undeniable. Their long, silky hair…slim, firm, petite bodies…and even the graceful way that they walk. (Asian women tend to move in a poised, sensuous way — while many Western women tend to stride or charge ahead in a more determined, almost masculine, manner — like an NFL linebacker looking to put a hit on the quarterback!)

I’m sure you get turned on by their sensual, exotic features. And of course, Asian women possess a sense of innocence that makes us curious to know more about them. It’s a turn-on to think that beneath that shy, polite exterior lies a simmering sexuality that is waiting to be unleashed!

But if you were to admit this preference to a Western woman, she’d probably respond with scorn. She’ll assume that your attraction to Asian women is all about wanting a “submissive slave” who will wait on you hand and foot and cater to your sexual needs. The B.W.W. (Bitter Western Woman) believes that guys who are into Asian girls aren’t “strong” enough or “man” enough to handle a “real woman.”

This couldn’t be farther from the truth, and you already know this if you’ve been with sexy Asian women. The Asian girlfriends I’ve had have been smart, self-sufficient, opinionated and strong. Yet at the same time, they radiate pure femininity.
They make a man feel like…well, like a MAN!

This is the way you and I were born to feel, and it’s what we need in order to feel happy and good about ourselves. Just ask any of your married buddies who have been beaten down and emasculated by their nagging, overbearing wives.

Having an attraction towards Asian women isn’t any weird “fetish,” nor does it suggest that you are in any way deficient or unable to handle a relationship with a woman of your own race. On the contrary, I say that you are enlightened! You’re willing to think “outside the box” and not follow the same script that your friends do — the guys who settle for whatever girl they can get, because they’re convinced that in order to date stunningly beautiful women (or a hot younger woman) you need to be rich, famous or have movie-star good looks.

These guys accept the idea that they’re never going to be with a hot, sexy, hard-bodied woman who respects and adores them — and so, once they reach a certain age, they marry a girl who they think is “compatible” with them (which usually means, she’s as boring and ordinary as he is).

But how many of these guys wind up being truly happy and sexually fulfilled? Personally, I don’t know of many. I just know that a lot of married friends of mine beg their wives for the chance to hang out with me. They tell their wives that they need to come over to Asia and visit me “for business,” but the real reason is that they know I will introduce them to beautiful Asian women.

Look, we’re all driven by the same needs and desires that we shared with our ancestors 10,000 years ago. We are hard-wired to be men. We desire women who are soft and feminine, and respond to our masculinity and strength. Asian women cater to this need like no other type of female.

I believe there are a number of valid, important reasons why men find beautiful Asian women so appealing. Some of these reasons, we’re not even aware of on a conscious level.

Here are some of the big ones. (Note, these characteristics do not apply to all Asian women. I’m talking about the caliber of Asian women that you’ll want to meet and be with.)

#1 They have strong sexual appeal.

A sexy Asian woman

A sexy Asian woman. (…and she happens to be a good personal friend.)

The silky hair; flawless skin; petite, hard bodies; and exotic Oriental features add up to combination that a lot of men find irresistible.

Plus, anatomically, the Asian face (particularly the women with more Oriental features) is constructed so that it seems to convey less expression and emotion than the faces of Caucasian people. The construct of their faces makes Asian women more “difficult to read” than Caucasian women, who tend to express and share their feelings constantly (whether we’re in the mood to know about their feelings, or not!).

This gives beautiful Asian woman an air of mystery and unpredictability, which is deeply attractive to men — because we’re hard-wired to thrive on the thrill of the hunt.

Asian women also have excellent skin quality, and tend to develop less wrinkles than Caucasian woman as they get older — which is why Asian women can remain strikingly beautiful well into middle age.

#2 They tend to be quite approachable.

In my experience, there is no question that Asian women are more approachable than Western women and they love being flirted with. Simply walk up to most Asian women, give them a warm smile, and say to them in their native language, “You’re so pretty,” and you’ll often get a smile in return — and that will be enough to start a conversation. With an American woman, this would probably get you a dirty look (or worse).

The fact is, beautiful Asian women smile more. It’s part of their culture. You can tour provinces in the Philippines that are poorer than anything you’ve ever seen, and the people (and the women, in particular) will always greet you with a smile.

Thailand is literally known as “The Land Of Smiles” because people smile all the time. (This can be confusing to foreigners, since the “Thai smile” can actually mean a lot of different things — I explain this in the “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” book. But at any rate, it beats being around a bunch of frowning, frumpy Western women!)

Try walking around a shopping mall in Bangkok, Jakarta or Manila — your mind will be blown by how many pretty young women are simply willing to smile at you when you make eye contact.

Contrast this with the hot women in America. They will frown most of the time in order to assert that they can’t be bothered with meeting anyone new. They will automatically consider you to be a loser, or some type of threat, until you prove otherwise.

Of course, a lot of beautiful Asian women are much shyer than Western women — or seem to be shy, until you engage them in a friendly way and get them to open up.

Don’t think that their shy exterior makes Asian women more difficult to approach. In fact, you’ll find that part of their shyness stems from their great concern with being polite.

At that point, the key is knowing how to build their interest and attraction. The “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” program will show you how to do that.

#3 They are excellent homemakers, and take pride in managing the household.

Visit a home run by a beautiful Asian woman, and you’ll find that it is always organized and clean. The meals are prepared with care, the husband always wears clean clothes, and the children are well-fed and neatly dressed. Unless your Asian sweetheart is from a rich family that employed servants, she was helping out with household duties starting at a young age.

Even the poorest families keep their living space as clean as possible. In Asia, women will always make sure that your home is clean, and they will take pride in cooking your meals and keeping you well-fed.

#4 They have a rich sense of culture and heritage.

Many Westerners are fascinated by the colorful, exotic, mysterious cultures of Asia, which are steeped in history. In recent times, Asia has gotten a reputation as being rather trendy among Westerners. This is particularly true with Japan, which Westerners have begun to recognize as a Mecca for fashion. (Japanese girls are years ahead of Western girls, with their super-cool, futuristic styles of dress.)

Why else would so many Caucasians, both men and women, put tattoos of Chinese and Japanese characters on their bodies, thinking it makes them look hip and “spiritual” — even though they’ve never even visited those countries? (Very lame, if you ask me…)

By dating an Asian woman, you’ll have the opportunity to learn more her fascinating culture — including its beliefs, traditions, music, cuisine, movies, arts, and history. This isn’t the case when you date a woman who grew up in the town next to yours. Being able to constantly learn new things about her culture, while sharing yours with her, can be a big advantage in a relationship. There is less chance of the two of you growing bored with each other. When you date an Asian woman and have genuine appreciation for her culture and background, there are new things for you to explore every day.

#5 Asian women place a high value on relationships and have unconditional love for their family.

Another attractive aspect of beautiful Asian women is that unlike most of their counterparts in Western countries, they put tremendous value on their families and relationships. Choose the right partner, and she’ll be highly loyal to you and will avoid doing anything that will damage the relationship. This tends to bring out the best in you as a man.

Did you know that the Philippines is one of only two countries in the world where there is no divorce? It does not exist. Filipinas are raised to believe that when they marry, it is for life. Even in other, more developed Asian countries (where there is divorce), it is considered a shameful last resort — unlike in Western countries, where the attitude isn’t until “til death us part.” It’s more like, “Let’s give it a try, and if it’s not working out six months from now, I’ll take your house and half your money, dumbass…”

Again, I must remind you that I am speaking in general terms here. Are all Asian women passionately loyal and committed to their relationships? Of course not. There are plenty of warped women and gold diggers out there; you’ve got to keep your wits about you and know to avoid them. (Which can be difficult when you find yourself dating an Asian girl with the tightest body you’ve ever laid your hands on!) The “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” book contains some very helpful tips on this.

#6 We believe the attraction is mutual.

Woman in Hangzhou, China.

Woman in Hangzhou, China. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

A big reason why a lot of guys “hone in” on Asian women is that they’ve been told that Asian women are as attracted to foreigners as we are to them. This idea of a “mutual fascination” is appealing to guys who are tired of jumping through hoops to try to date Western women.

If you are reasonably attractive and have light skin, it is true that many Asian women will have a built-in automatic attraction towards you. Part of this comes from their desire to have light-skinned children, since light skin, in their culture, is considered beautiful and high-status.

#7 Dealing with interracial stigmas is not really an issue.

Western society is a lot more tolerant of other races than it was 100, or even 50, years ago. In America, we elected a black President, which would have been unthinkable only a decade ago. But racism does persist in different forms, and there is still some unease in the West when it comes to interracial relationships.

For example, a white man marrying a black woman, or a black man marrying a white woman, is still considered unacceptable (or at least, inappropriate) in the minds of many Westerners. This isn’t usually the case when a Western man hooks up with an Asian woman. It has been accepted for quite a while. I’m not saying this is a reason to choose Asian women over those of another race, but the reality is, going this route does make it easier for you to “cross the racial divide” if you choose a woman who is not of your own race.

Interracial relationships between non-Asian men, and Asian women, have become very common. And it’s silly for some people to think that the differences in your upbringing and culture, and those of an Asian woman, will create difficulties. In fact, these differences can give the relationship an added dimension that keeps things interesting.

(One difference in backgrounds that can create obstacles is if you marry an Asian woman who comes from a very poor family, since you may be expected to provide financial support for her relatives. I talk more about this in the “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” book.)

But as far as the difference between your culture and hers, it shouldn’t present any problems. If any of your friends or family members have an issue with you being with a woman who you love — simply because she is Asian — they need to get with the times and broaden their horizons. (I find that most people who take a dim view of my preference for Asian women are, themselves, starving for companionship or trapped in miserable relationships with women of their own race.)

#8 They are spiritually grounded.

Many Asian women observe a religion and take it seriously. Whether she worships God, Buddha or whomever, religion tends to give Asian women a sense of calmness and inner peace that many Western women lack. Asian women don’t need to do constant “soul searching” and fret about what is lacking in their lives. For the Asian woman, a loving partner, a happy, healthy household, and the love of her family and God is enough.

#9 They have a hardworking nature.

Asian women typically start helping out their families from a very young age, waking up early to help out with house-hold chores. This is a dramatic difference from the way children are typically raised in Western countries. Also, they believe in working hard in order to provide a better future for their families.

This is evident in immigrant communities throughout the Western world; they’ll work 24 hours a day if it means being able to send money home and enabling family members to migrate there and join them. These people respect the value of hard work — and a woman from this type of background is not going to turn into a spoiled “princess” once you marry her.

#10 Asian women take great pride in their appearance.

A sexy Asian womanEven if they’re only stepping out to shop for groceries, Asian women always want to look presentable. Going to the salon is a ritual. They feel it’s important to stay sexy for their man. This is a far cry from the way many Western women behave once they’re married and no longer need to worry about landing a husband. They start packing on the pounds, and would rather wear sweat pants and baggy shirts than the short skirts and tight-fitting jeans that sexy Asian women prefer.

(If you’re still wondering why Western women have negative things to say about Western guys who marry Asian women…can you say “jealousy?”)

It took me a long time to figure out how to date and meet Asian women, and how to make them feel that powerful physical and emotional response called ATTRACTION…

I can’t tell you how much I wish I could have known all these stuff here when I was younger. It’s taken me literally YEARS to put all the pieces together, and I know of no other resource that shows you exactly how to become a MASTER with Asian women as this:


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So, what do you think are the reasons we love to meet Asian women?  … Please leave your comment below.

Dr. Smile

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62 comments to Pretty Asian Women: Why do We Love Asian Women?

  • Sobela

    All I can say is wow and y dues he keep on saying race we r all people here but saying race makes it sound like we r talking about dating elves or something that is not human really lol.
    I do agree Asian lady’s r really pretty and white men or men from any country that is not in Asia will find it really ez to date Asian girls and I’m not saying that all Asian girls r just dating u just b/c ur white + they want to get out of there country or poverty but most of them do lol so when they see a white guy they start thinking now is my chance to get myself out of here and stop whoring around for only a few dollars every night and most of the time guys will fall for it.
    O and not saying guys r that stooped but this guy dues seem to be and he dues sound like he wants a slave and not a loving hard working woman.
    I’m a 27 year old woman in pretty good shape love to work out so I look good for my man and am of German back ground and I’m a very hard working person that would do anything for my man as he will tell u. Not all girls from the US r that bad just got to keep looking for the right one but I do agree a lot of them r spoiled and lazy+ they don’t all know what a hard days work is like or how to please a man but that is just b/c their parents did not teach them anything but to be that way and I do think that Asian people r very hard working but again their parents from a very young age told them to do this or not to do that and they don’t want to bring sham on there family so they r pretty well behaved b/c if they don’t they will shame the family which they just will not do b/c then their on their own which is unbearable for them so there is that well mannered Asian woman we all know and really love lol.
    I love that about them and they do have a strong love for family and work but please guy’s don’t think that to have a hard working loving woman u need to go to Asia there r plenty of good woman in the states and Europe u just have to look for them.

    If ur wondering y I’m here telling u this I was looking for a Asian dress lol go back to ur man talk sorry if I offended someone here I’m so sorry.

    It’s just that this really bothered me and had to say something.
    Ty for reading what I have to say. 😉

  • i think many men misunderstood why asian girl smile all the time,im filipina and i would say that i smile if we saw foreign men or women who visit our country, my first impression to them is,oh thanks wow they visit my country i hope they like it,that is the first that cross in my mined i dont know the other filipina women think. but we filipino we welcome all the visitors who visit our country.

  • femina

    i love how you described asian woman…i am a filipina and had 2 relationships with white man…first was german, & now dating a russian guy…i don’t like to compare but both said the same thing why they like me 🙂 the innocent look, the deep mind, the sweet smile…i even could laugh about how my boyfriend described my skin…100% cotton, and he loves my long black hair, (actually it’s the reason why i keep it, he adores it and he likes it untied) my petite frame was also a winner to my boyfriend….he also admires my sincerity with the relationship and how i value my family etc….i love the way you described how we keep our house and you are right about a filipina raised with servants etc…(i was like that) i’ve been living and working in Italy for 5 years and still shy 🙂 even during summer together with the locals at the beach also seeing the spanish & french woman sun bathing barely naked…i cannot really do it…funny my friends would say, please you are the only one with your top on & my boss would tease me always..i’m sharing this article to my russian boyfriend…

  • Ned.Kelly

    The couple of black and yellow you’ll not see very often special with asian women, because these ‘yellow chicks’ have more respect onself than white women and not choose a black male ,same happen with white man who can’t be seeit making couple with a black woman and quess why?..because the attraction and comparison betwen white and yellow races are much more.

  • John

    There is a stereotype for every couple: jungle fever, yellow fever, old men with young women/perv and gold digger, black and yellow, etc. Sorry dude but most men do not prefer Asians.

    Every race will have some people whom are attractive and most that average or below, despite whatever features he/she may or may not possess. If the girl is hot, a guy will find her attractive even if she is not his “type.”

    Okay, so you prefer Asian women…. but to go and write a whole article about it and claim most men feel the same way… is, well, delusional []…

  • James Trump

    Go to the Mall you’ll find out ONLY 2 types of (East)Asian women would date with white men:

    1) Hookers – who cheat/rip-off white men for money in return so as to support their Asian lovers at home

    2) Lower than average Asians women who obviously can’t get a normal Asian BF

    Or the Asian woman has mental problems herself. Many white men deny to believe this fact, but live in their narcissistic dreams with porn stories, dating website articles and Hollywood movies.

  • john wright

    i’ve gotta agree with most of what you’ve said, doc! most are more feminine, and i always value good manners! and there are some very pretty ones, just like in any race!

  • i would love to marry asian women eventhough they are not as sexy as western women. asian women have great manners and prioritizes the family so much `.,

  • I have dated,an asian women for the last 20 years, and i hope to stay this way until jesus come back amen. why should white guys have all the fun!!!!!!

  • Sam

    Hmm, funny since I’m a Chicano and I’m dating a Korean girl who was born in Seoul 🙂 many things you said I would say are true. A good thing is she is very pretty and cute… Bad thing is most of my friends wished they could date her LOL. Good article btw ^_^

  • Ned

    we all white love asian wome ,because are diferent of caucazian ugli, fat like a cow and drunkard

  • jo

    Ahem..I am Asian I dont have perfect skin perfect hair…I am yes short but a bt of extra few pounds but I guess I can never be size 6 or 8 just like my Asian counterparts..why?…cos guess I have the curves…( sometimes I do frown At some Asian women who are so obsessed by their figure)..if they have the means at times they will try to…(I have known quite including friend who don’t eat rice at all thinkng they maintain their bodies…and I love food what can I do…Yes indeed some of mentioned above are true..however just by looking at the front page of the book (not trying to be hypocrit) yes physical looks is important but putting an Asian with just undies on…(this author is indirectly not really depicting what a True aSIAN BEAUTY IS..)…Sometimes I have quite shamed by some Asian women who are very friendly with foreigners and the truth is a snob to their co-race (sorry not bothered to think for other term)…about the case, that asian women tend to be conscious of how they look, yes we do most women do..but some women even Asian tend to be so obsessed…I for one as long as I am covered and dont smell bad then I can go to supermarkets…However,sometimes I do like wonder how is it to be with a foreign man esp..caucasian as some fo them are goodlooking..but if I will just based it on their looks I for one have different cultural background which would make it a bit difficult…But I know a friend who recently married a europian man, i think they are great couple but sometimes I felt sad when this friend told me how his husband want her to be slender all the time…(my friend sometimes i think really really watch her food intake and not really enjoying food..)…simple thing but for all foreign man who just want their asian women to be as thin as stick all the time..grow up and snap into reality…physiologically body changes as pregnancy aging etc…as of now, just trying to be as I am and not to be included in some of Asian stereotypes which sometimes can be flattering yet some can be pretty superficial…

  • married_to_a_taiwanese_woman

    I don’t understand why the guys here who have found an attraction to Asian women find it necessary to bag on white or American women. I never had trouble meeting women in the States, and dated black, white, Hispanic, Asian…
    Not that I’m a great stud or a player or anything, but I am very interested in being friends with women and I think all women like that. (Who doesn’t?)
    Anyway, guys: you needn’t defend your taste for Asia by discrediting this side of the pond. It’s okay. Live and let live!!

  • i like asian women because of their exotic looks and mild mannered personality.:’

  • Carlos

    Dr. Smile, you could have not said it better. You have captured all of the things that make Westeners choose Asian ladies. I really enjoyed the article and I wish our ladies back home would learn from it. Maybe you need to write a book titled How a Western woman can keeo her man.

  • asian women are petite and most of them are mild mannered compared to western women;`.

  • Paul

    My name is Paul and I have recently been contacted by a woman from China via
    I have found myself interested in knowing more about her and she actually sent me an email, wanting to get to know more about me. I can also tell you that in 14 years of divorce, I have learned that there are many wonderful asian women out there who truly are kind and caring people. I have never dated and asian woman, and I do believe there may be a few
    obsticals in dating someone who is 6600 miles away but at least for now, we are exchanging email and that’s a good start to see what could happen.

    I am a small handyman and contractor in Ohio and have had a couple of asian clients over the
    years and they truly are very nice people and it is true… they always smile when I show up
    at their home to fix or repair something.

    I plan on getting the book and want to learn more about this entire process of getting to know, and dating an asian woman. Frankly, I’m sick and tired of the attitudes of Western women.


  • virgo

    well iam a asian women n thanks for all the comment anyway yes wer asian that once we marrage we have to do everyting to protic the marrages n we beleave that marrage is for the lifetime n we dnt beleave in divurce solove is verry important to asian women thanks everyone

  • Moira

    Let’s face it, the combination of Western white men and Asian babes create a very good genetic composition with Barbie doll like looking cute kids…its a matter of psychological compatibility between two people whatever they look like.

  • Fe

    Lets just respect one another whatever differences or preferences we have i think its individual decision and choice. In choosing a lifetime partner what we need to pray and ask for someone who can stand beside us. Nevertheless, i must agree with the statement above though it’s not an assurance for anybody to have a good or ideal Asian girlfriend… FOR TO LOVE IS TO BE VIGILANT. Good Luck for all of us!

  • Dave

    I dont find asian women attractive at all. I can honestly say they are not pretty and have bodies of children. Black hair not attractive and neither are ugly black slanted eyes. I dont get it never did. These white men are never attractive and could never get an attractive white girl at home. Thats the truth! there is nothing mysterious about asian girls. The mystery is why white guys like them. ugggh!!!

    • Jug

      there are many men who like Asian women, black hair and small eyes and tilted. You seem to think that only blonde hair are beautiful. If you do not feel attracted save it for you. I hope you understand me, I used the google translator because I can not speak English.

  • for me we can’t judge people specialy the personality coz we have own life have own face and all of that is making from god.
    so we are a group coz there a god making all
    and for me i don’t care if there good looking in outside
    coz im searching a good haert inside

  • richard

    Well, maybe fat old guys end up with dark skinned ugly bar girls–so what. There is somebody for everybody, right? The bar girls fulfill a need and desire on the part of men who would be considered rejects back home due to–being older, common working men, ugly, ..whatever reasons. Who cares! I don’t know why people always comment about this anyways.

    We all need somebody and truth be told, most of us are not so good looking are we?? So what are we to do? And who is going to date/marry all of the ugly women?

  • Yes, I often see the same thing, and I feel imbarrassed.

    The ugly fat men you mention may not be able to get a date back home. That is why they use a little money to buy some cheap quick entertainment from some girls in Asia.

    However, this blog is not written for guys on how to pickup bar-girls. There are plenty of web site that already do this. This web site is written for the serious guys that want more than just some quick paid entertainment.

    The guys on this site are looking for ‘real’ Asian girls that are interested in a real relationship, based on Love.

    -Dr. Smile

  • joi

    Sure but then why do we always see that 9 out 10 times it’s the ugly fat old men with the ugliest Asian girls ever created? Those red-light district Thai girls sure are dark and ugly little chickies. Seriously do these white men have any taste or are they just that desperate?

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