Pretty Asian Women: Why do We Love Asian Women?

 I love sexy Asian women: I have often wondered and asked myself why do I always seem to enjoy the presence of an Asian female?  I frankly am not sure – since I am not simply trying to get laid, but I will explore a few possible reasons.

Sometimes I think I have lost my mind; since I travel from USA to Asia on 20 hour airplane flights to meet asian women.  I often put up with smelly and crowded cities in Asia, the internet speed sucks in most of the poor countries of Asia, and the 100+ degree weather can really drain you as soon as you step outside the door etc.

However, Dean Cortez and Simon Heong has put together a list of a few reason why we like Asian women so much and what you should consider to meet Asian women.

learn-moreTake a look at the article, and let me know what do think?   You can add your comments at the end of this article.  Here is the article:

The physical appeal of sexy Asian women is undeniable. Their long, silky hair…slim, firm, petite bodies…and even the graceful way that they walk. (Asian women tend to move in a poised, sensuous way — while many Western women tend to stride or charge ahead in a more determined, almost masculine, manner — like an NFL linebacker looking to put a hit on the quarterback!)

I’m sure you get turned on by their sensual, exotic features. And of course, Asian women possess a sense of innocence that makes us curious to know more about them. It’s a turn-on to think that beneath that shy, polite exterior lies a simmering sexuality that is waiting to be unleashed!

But if you were to admit this preference to a Western woman, she’d probably respond with scorn. She’ll assume that your attraction to Asian women is all about wanting a “submissive slave” who will wait on you hand and foot and cater to your sexual needs. The B.W.W. (Bitter Western Woman) believes that guys who are into Asian girls aren’t “strong” enough or “man” enough to handle a “real woman.”

This couldn’t be farther from the truth, and you already know this if you’ve been with sexy Asian women. The Asian girlfriends I’ve had have been smart, self-sufficient, opinionated and strong. Yet at the same time, they radiate pure femininity.
They make a man feel like…well, like a MAN!

This is the way you and I were born to feel, and it’s what we need in order to feel happy and good about ourselves. Just ask any of your married buddies who have been beaten down and emasculated by their nagging, overbearing wives.

Having an attraction towards Asian women isn’t any weird “fetish,” nor does it suggest that you are in any way deficient or unable to handle a relationship with a woman of your own race. On the contrary, I say that you are enlightened! You’re willing to think “outside the box” and not follow the same script that your friends do — the guys who settle for whatever girl they can get, because they’re convinced that in order to date stunningly beautiful women (or a hot younger woman) you need to be rich, famous or have movie-star good looks.

These guys accept the idea that they’re never going to be with a hot, sexy, hard-bodied woman who respects and adores them — and so, once they reach a certain age, they marry a girl who they think is “compatible” with them (which usually means, she’s as boring and ordinary as he is).

But how many of these guys wind up being truly happy and sexually fulfilled? Personally, I don’t know of many. I just know that a lot of married friends of mine beg their wives for the chance to hang out with me. They tell their wives that they need to come over to Asia and visit me “for business,” but the real reason is that they know I will introduce them to beautiful Asian women.

Look, we’re all driven by the same needs and desires that we shared with our ancestors 10,000 years ago. We are hard-wired to be men. We desire women who are soft and feminine, and respond to our masculinity and strength. Asian women cater to this need like no other type of female.

I believe there are a number of valid, important reasons why men find beautiful Asian women so appealing. Some of these reasons, we’re not even aware of on a conscious level.

Here are some of the big ones. (Note, these characteristics do not apply to all Asian women. I’m talking about the caliber of Asian women that you’ll want to meet and be with.)

#1 They have strong sexual appeal.

A sexy Asian woman

A sexy Asian woman. (…and she happens to be a good personal friend.)

The silky hair; flawless skin; petite, hard bodies; and exotic Oriental features add up to combination that a lot of men find irresistible.

Plus, anatomically, the Asian face (particularly the women with more Oriental features) is constructed so that it seems to convey less expression and emotion than the faces of Caucasian people. The construct of their faces makes Asian women more “difficult to read” than Caucasian women, who tend to express and share their feelings constantly (whether we’re in the mood to know about their feelings, or not!).

This gives beautiful Asian woman an air of mystery and unpredictability, which is deeply attractive to men — because we’re hard-wired to thrive on the thrill of the hunt.

Asian women also have excellent skin quality, and tend to develop less wrinkles than Caucasian woman as they get older — which is why Asian women can remain strikingly beautiful well into middle age.

#2 They tend to be quite approachable.

In my experience, there is no question that Asian women are more approachable than Western women and they love being flirted with. Simply walk up to most Asian women, give them a warm smile, and say to them in their native language, “You’re so pretty,” and you’ll often get a smile in return — and that will be enough to start a conversation. With an American woman, this would probably get you a dirty look (or worse).

The fact is, beautiful Asian women smile more. It’s part of their culture. You can tour provinces in the Philippines that are poorer than anything you’ve ever seen, and the people (and the women, in particular) will always greet you with a smile.

Thailand is literally known as “The Land Of Smiles” because people smile all the time. (This can be confusing to foreigners, since the “Thai smile” can actually mean a lot of different things — I explain this in the “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” book. But at any rate, it beats being around a bunch of frowning, frumpy Western women!)

Try walking around a shopping mall in Bangkok, Jakarta or Manila — your mind will be blown by how many pretty young women are simply willing to smile at you when you make eye contact.

Contrast this with the hot women in America. They will frown most of the time in order to assert that they can’t be bothered with meeting anyone new. They will automatically consider you to be a loser, or some type of threat, until you prove otherwise.

Of course, a lot of beautiful Asian women are much shyer than Western women — or seem to be shy, until you engage them in a friendly way and get them to open up.

Don’t think that their shy exterior makes Asian women more difficult to approach. In fact, you’ll find that part of their shyness stems from their great concern with being polite.

At that point, the key is knowing how to build their interest and attraction. The “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” program will show you how to do that.

#3 They are excellent homemakers, and take pride in managing the household.

Visit a home run by a beautiful Asian woman, and you’ll find that it is always organized and clean. The meals are prepared with care, the husband always wears clean clothes, and the children are well-fed and neatly dressed. Unless your Asian sweetheart is from a rich family that employed servants, she was helping out with household duties starting at a young age.

Even the poorest families keep their living space as clean as possible. In Asia, women will always make sure that your home is clean, and they will take pride in cooking your meals and keeping you well-fed.

#4 They have a rich sense of culture and heritage.

Many Westerners are fascinated by the colorful, exotic, mysterious cultures of Asia, which are steeped in history. In recent times, Asia has gotten a reputation as being rather trendy among Westerners. This is particularly true with Japan, which Westerners have begun to recognize as a Mecca for fashion. (Japanese girls are years ahead of Western girls, with their super-cool, futuristic styles of dress.)

Why else would so many Caucasians, both men and women, put tattoos of Chinese and Japanese characters on their bodies, thinking it makes them look hip and “spiritual” — even though they’ve never even visited those countries? (Very lame, if you ask me…)

By dating an Asian woman, you’ll have the opportunity to learn more her fascinating culture — including its beliefs, traditions, music, cuisine, movies, arts, and history. This isn’t the case when you date a woman who grew up in the town next to yours. Being able to constantly learn new things about her culture, while sharing yours with her, can be a big advantage in a relationship. There is less chance of the two of you growing bored with each other. When you date an Asian woman and have genuine appreciation for her culture and background, there are new things for you to explore every day.

#5 Asian women place a high value on relationships and have unconditional love for their family.

Another attractive aspect of beautiful Asian women is that unlike most of their counterparts in Western countries, they put tremendous value on their families and relationships. Choose the right partner, and she’ll be highly loyal to you and will avoid doing anything that will damage the relationship. This tends to bring out the best in you as a man.

Did you know that the Philippines is one of only two countries in the world where there is no divorce? It does not exist. Filipinas are raised to believe that when they marry, it is for life. Even in other, more developed Asian countries (where there is divorce), it is considered a shameful last resort — unlike in Western countries, where the attitude isn’t until “til death us part.” It’s more like, “Let’s give it a try, and if it’s not working out six months from now, I’ll take your house and half your money, dumbass…”

Again, I must remind you that I am speaking in general terms here. Are all Asian women passionately loyal and committed to their relationships? Of course not. There are plenty of warped women and gold diggers out there; you’ve got to keep your wits about you and know to avoid them. (Which can be difficult when you find yourself dating an Asian girl with the tightest body you’ve ever laid your hands on!) The “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” book contains some very helpful tips on this.

#6 We believe the attraction is mutual.

Woman in Hangzhou, China.

Woman in Hangzhou, China. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

A big reason why a lot of guys “hone in” on Asian women is that they’ve been told that Asian women are as attracted to foreigners as we are to them. This idea of a “mutual fascination” is appealing to guys who are tired of jumping through hoops to try to date Western women.

If you are reasonably attractive and have light skin, it is true that many Asian women will have a built-in automatic attraction towards you. Part of this comes from their desire to have light-skinned children, since light skin, in their culture, is considered beautiful and high-status.

#7 Dealing with interracial stigmas is not really an issue.

Western society is a lot more tolerant of other races than it was 100, or even 50, years ago. In America, we elected a black President, which would have been unthinkable only a decade ago. But racism does persist in different forms, and there is still some unease in the West when it comes to interracial relationships.

For example, a white man marrying a black woman, or a black man marrying a white woman, is still considered unacceptable (or at least, inappropriate) in the minds of many Westerners. This isn’t usually the case when a Western man hooks up with an Asian woman. It has been accepted for quite a while. I’m not saying this is a reason to choose Asian women over those of another race, but the reality is, going this route does make it easier for you to “cross the racial divide” if you choose a woman who is not of your own race.

Interracial relationships between non-Asian men, and Asian women, have become very common. And it’s silly for some people to think that the differences in your upbringing and culture, and those of an Asian woman, will create difficulties. In fact, these differences can give the relationship an added dimension that keeps things interesting.

(One difference in backgrounds that can create obstacles is if you marry an Asian woman who comes from a very poor family, since you may be expected to provide financial support for her relatives. I talk more about this in the “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” book.)

But as far as the difference between your culture and hers, it shouldn’t present any problems. If any of your friends or family members have an issue with you being with a woman who you love — simply because she is Asian — they need to get with the times and broaden their horizons. (I find that most people who take a dim view of my preference for Asian women are, themselves, starving for companionship or trapped in miserable relationships with women of their own race.)

#8 They are spiritually grounded.

Many Asian women observe a religion and take it seriously. Whether she worships God, Buddha or whomever, religion tends to give Asian women a sense of calmness and inner peace that many Western women lack. Asian women don’t need to do constant “soul searching” and fret about what is lacking in their lives. For the Asian woman, a loving partner, a happy, healthy household, and the love of her family and God is enough.

#9 They have a hardworking nature.

Asian women typically start helping out their families from a very young age, waking up early to help out with house-hold chores. This is a dramatic difference from the way children are typically raised in Western countries. Also, they believe in working hard in order to provide a better future for their families.

This is evident in immigrant communities throughout the Western world; they’ll work 24 hours a day if it means being able to send money home and enabling family members to migrate there and join them. These people respect the value of hard work — and a woman from this type of background is not going to turn into a spoiled “princess” once you marry her.

#10 Asian women take great pride in their appearance.

A sexy Asian womanEven if they’re only stepping out to shop for groceries, Asian women always want to look presentable. Going to the salon is a ritual. They feel it’s important to stay sexy for their man. This is a far cry from the way many Western women behave once they’re married and no longer need to worry about landing a husband. They start packing on the pounds, and would rather wear sweat pants and baggy shirts than the short skirts and tight-fitting jeans that sexy Asian women prefer.

(If you’re still wondering why Western women have negative things to say about Western guys who marry Asian women…can you say “jealousy?”)

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So, what do you think are the reasons we love to meet Asian women?  … Please leave your comment below.

Dr. Smile

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62 comments to Pretty Asian Women: Why do We Love Asian Women?

  • Robb

    I am not saying these following things for flames or trolls. Before anyone gets in an uproar first read these things in the context they are meant. I am speaking VERY candid and honestly so this reply is NOT for those whom are easily offended.

    To begin with, I have never dated an Asian women yet I find myself extremely attracted to them. It doesn’t have anything to do with them being “exotic” or what I can imagine they would be like in the sack either. I find women of Asian decent very pretty. Also not to mention EVERY Asian female I have ever talked to was polite and respectful.

    Now onto the reasons I prefer an Asian female vs. an American female (all races included)…

    American born women (most of them) are selfish and do not have any respect for anyone except for themselves, (now remember, we are talking about SINGLE FEMALES) this is what the “Western” male deems as being “Americanized” even females from other ethnicity are in this same class as well and it is getting harder and harder to find a companion that has the same morals and values as men of my stature. In the USA the stats for divorce is at a whopping 85-90% think about that… This means that at least 4 out of 5 marriages will fail EVERY YEAR! This is from the degrading morality of these Americanized females. And before some angry American female (regardless of ethnicity) starts screaming at me about this reply. Think about this for just a moment…

    A man comes home after working late and falls asleep almost as soon as his head hits the pillow, his girlfriend or mate, rifles through his wallet and his pants trying to “catch him in the act” after seeking for almost an hour and finding nothing she then quietly says to herself, “I didn’t catch him THIS time!”

    Now let’s reverse this same situation and say it was the guy that did this action and not the female. The male would immediately apologize to the female about his issue of distrust and ask for her forgiveness, WOULD AN AMERICAN FEMALE DO THE SAME????? C’mon, lie to me now and tell me I am wrong.

    *note* This is a study from PRINCETON UNIVERSITY in 1995 and it has been PROVEN that out of 100 American females whom have done this only 2% admitted to it being wrong. the other 98% said it was just a matter of time before they caught him cheating. Yet out of 100 males, only 2% said it was ok to go through her personal belongings without permission.

    The other part to add to this situation is that it is a very strong possibility that these same two individuals will get married at a later time as well and then divorce some few years afterward.

    The part that is really scary is the level of self denial and personal right that American females place upon themselves towards men is alarming to the point that makes them undesirable to the American male. The American males that have this same trait have MANY females chasing them for a relationship even though they know on a subconscious level the relationship will NOT LAST.

    Three key points to think about in this reply.

    #1. It is a matter of morality and mentality that chase us men away.

    #2. Men now are sensitive and becoming more mature than that of the average female now and it is up to the female to stop manipulating the males (or trying to) and start acting more morally and mentally fit.

    #3. Because of the battle for control in a relationship and to deem who is “right” we have now come to a self loathing system that is failed and flawed thus we now search for the things that matter to us on a subconscious level.

    I am 40 years old and I have been married 1 time, also have had many relationships that have failed in the past, I have been abused and mistreated, I have been used and manipulated, and after all of this I have also come to learn that the only places to find a mate that will stand the test of time and really give a rat’s butt about me and really care is from another country that is of Asian origin. It is because of the culture and teachings of these people that they have lasting marriages and also live longer as well as happier more productive lives.

    In closing, I am going to let the disgruntled females whom read this know I am not bitter nor am I damaged goods or angry. This is a simple reply for those whom have an open mind and are willing to learn something about what real men in the USA think. They will not tell the USA female population because it is something that we constantly get scolded for and told that we are at fault. The funny part about this (and really sad too) is that it is usually from another angry American female that is too headstrong to listen and learn.

    Now I am dismounting my soapbox and all of you American females can “have at” me and let me know how wrong I am or how I need mental help. But later on, look at yourself in the mirror and then ask yourself if you were truly right in barking at a man who told you the truth…

  • Tina

    I am a female college student from India, I’m in a relationship with a white man 8 years older than me. We are currently dating for over 3 years now and I respect him a lot. He is struggling a lot with his career, finances. He thinks i’m never good enough for him. Sometimes I cant get through to him that I would never leave him no matter what but seems like I have no good way of making him understand. I love him a lot and wish life weren’t complicated for him.

  • Humored

    Thank you for the sales pitch, delightful ego boosting reading – alas now all I have to do is live up to it.

  • believePinay

    dr love,
    Everything you said are trully happening ….its about opposite attraction 🙂

    I grew up in the Manila Philippines and live in a middle class type of family.Finished bachelors degree and flew to .after 4 years working in local hospital in manila.To make the story short even i grew up with maids around me but my mom showing how to do house chores.

    I have to adjust few months before i realize that I have to be independent here in the U.S. and now i turned out to be a a responsible mother and able to manage my kids being a single mom.

    I start dating caucasian men because they are symbolizing independence for me compaired with asian men that cannot make their own decision. I find them attracted more if they dates most asian women.

    I feel special to be admired by a caucasian men and I think we deserve it coz it really worthy 😉 the man ill be with will have so much love and affection.Our version of Romeo and Juliet ….

    Hoping the guy im dating which im really impressed will remain nice, sweet and romantic because he will have overflowing close intimacy from me.;)

  • YellowFever

    Asian women are the hotest on Earth. White chicks have the most expressive eyes, Blacks have the biggest tits, Latinas have the best asses, but it’s the Asians that have the best bodies overall. 1-6 my ass! The hot to ugly ratio is more like 9-1.

    Plus the wider gene pool argument is a good reason to interbreed.

  • doddle doo

    This is ridiculous. I’m sorry. But it is.

    If there were no external influences helping to dictate what we consider to be attractive, there would be no asian women and white men phenomenon. I’m pretty sure karate kid had a lot to do with plenty of fetish-based relationships.

    People often want to try “the wild side”

    If a white man wants to cross the color barrier, he’ll date an asian woman. not because she’s so amazing but because

    1. Asian women will do anything for the even crappiest white guy
    2. It’s very common because its socially acceptable (I think it’s hilarious when white men date asian women and consider themselves to be “thinking OUTSIDE THE BOX” LOL!) its socially acceptable, thats the only reason theres no hesitance in doing it.
    3. Latina women (the attractive ones) won’t just date any white guy who approaches them.

    Black and mixed women (the attractive ones) wouldn’t even consider a white man. but, asian women will! and for one reason. YOURE WHITE and they want wasian babies, and that’s nothing to be proud of.

    Don’t even give me that crap about hair. Italian women have the best hair. Asians do have long silky hair, but it can’t curl for shit and they have non densely packed follicles (thin hair) Italians have long hair of all different textures (usually silky waves) and its much thicker. But… Italian women aren’t the best women either…. No one is. Its the individual that counts.

    For every drop dead gorgeous asian woman, theres about 6 drop dead UGLY asian women. Same goes for Latina women, black women white and Native american women.

    As for me, I am 1/2 black, 1/4 white and 1/4 asian (wasian dad, black mom. weird mix, I know) Most people just look at me and think I’m from the Caribbean or something.

    And eeevvveeerryyy single white man i have ever seen with an asain woman, always steals a glance at me when his woman isn’t looking. Most guys do. I’m not conceited, but I am aware that i am attractive, and it has NOTHING to do with my race. I don’t even look like i have a drop of Asian blood in me. Like i said, most people either think i’m Caribbean or some exotic type of black person lol

    • Fuel

      “Latina women (the attractive ones) won’t just date any white guy who approaches them.”
      “Black and mixed women (the attractive ones) wouldn’t even consider a white man”

      “As for me, I am 1/2 black, 1/4 white and 1/4 asian (wasian dad, black mom. weird mix, I know) Most people just look at me and think I’m from the Caribbean or something.

      And eeevvveeerryyy single white man i have ever seen with an asain woman, always steals a glance at me when his woman isn’t looking. Most guys do. I’m not conceited, but I am aware that i am attractive, and it has NOTHING to do with my race. I don’t even look like i have a drop of Asian blood in me.”

      Jesus, I am starting to see why most western men are more willing to date Asian women, at least the Asian women are present. I don’t care how hot you are, you don’t sound like some I’d want to put up with just by the attitude you convey in your writing. I think any guy with half a brain would agree with me. we are sick of toxic women, and if there is something better out there, why not go for it?

    • Rik Symons

      I like your style Girl. Most of what you say is true, and I’m a white guy who dates Asian women. I had a female friend from Hong Kong, not a girlfriend, she was much too young for me, but she used to laugh at white guys who would date “lamb chops”; a term used by the “Honkies” to describe an ugly Asian female. The white guys didn’t know any better.

      Men are men and most will look at other females, even if they have Miss Universe on their arm. All races have their beautiful women, but as we know, “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. Ultimately it does come down to personalities; the physical attraction is just there to get you started.

      Funny thing about mixed raced people; they do tend to be more attractive. Even the Chinese say that and they are very possessive about their race. So doddle doo I expect you are attractive too.

  • Emy

    So, I am a full Chinese young woman and my boyfriend is Caucasian. It is scientifically proven that different races are attracted to each other by a natural “instinct”. When it comes time for mating, the offspring will be taking genes from a larger gene pool, therefore creating healthier children.

    Pure blooded people, as most statistics show, have more recessive traits not only in malady but physical features; this will not change or improve until the genes are mixed with another (race) so the dominant traits can take over and eliminate the majority of diseases and conditions, for when the DNA combines in the production of an offspring, the dominant trait is present unless mixed with a heterogeneous and homogeneous trait (1 of 4 will receive the recessive trait). And the more the gene pool expands, the healthier each generation will be. But of course, the human race has now come up with morals and traditions. These intercept most of the natural “instincts” we have; humans are the only animals without instincts. Though these “instincts” still are subconscious, they do take toll.

    The reason why men think Asian women are more “obedient” are because in most Asian countries, especially China, the men respect their wives greatly, so in return their wives will treat them the same or better. Chinese culture, as I know it, is very rich in the concept of respect and preservation; not saying it is the perfect culture, but respect in a relationship is very crucial. Do not expect women to do all the house chores, because we do appreciate the help of our men. One of the reasons listed were that Asian women were prideful of their house chores; that is because that is what most women without an education did. The Chinese and other Asian cultures are VERY prideful in what they do, whether they work out on the farm or ruled the country.

    In our culture, we all have a role and must fulfill our duties to the best of our abilities. And if cleaning a house is our duty for the time being, we will do our best. Of course, time has progressed and that is not what all women do. I know I am looking into commissioning as a Navy Officer. I do still respect my boyfriend and he respects me. I will do my part with supporting him and his (rational) decisions and he will do the same. He helps me clean and such, and I help him too!

    On the sexual part, just know that sex is not what a relationship should be based off of. Culturally, my parents would disown me if I ever had sex or even kissed before marriage. With the flirting part, Caucasian girls would not scorn! I know and see so many who flirt like crazy! Asians scorn too, it is just the individual person. Saying all Asian women are flirty an d good house wives are such dramatic generalizations! In response

    to Asians being more intelligent, that is because in Asia, there is no free or public education. So schooling is taken very seriously, kids would be beaten at school for not reading or zoning out in class; the parents would might even go to the extent in taking them out of school! Don’t forget, the majority of Asia’s population is very poor, so even though some may want an education, they may never get it due to the lack of money.

    Also, in response to the looks, some men just have different preferences. Some may like that dark hair, brown-eyed girl, and others may prefer that blond hair, green/blue-eyed girl. Just as some prefer more “tom-boy” girls as others like more feminine girls. But always keep in mind, beauty is not in the face but in the soul.

    So the answer to your question, men may like Asian women more due to natural desires (“instincts”) and simply because you like the cultural aspects of the woman. It’s all a matter of perception. Keep in mind, don’t misinterpret this article and start making generalizations. Everyone is unique in their own way and that is what makes us successful in life; different ideas and contributions! Not saying this is intended, but never take a women (in this case, an Asian woman) for granted.

    Respect one another and there you will find love!

    *I am a junior in high school, and I have not experienced much. Yes, I have NEVER been involved in sexual activities, let alone kiss. I have been in this relationship (first relationship) for half a year now, and I plan on keeping it. What my boyfriend and I do is communicate A LOT. We talk and make agreements; we have a mental contract to not have sex/sexual activities until marriage.

    If we can both hold off any sexual desires, especially at an age of raging hormones :p and if we keep communicating and resolving conflicts, we can make it happen. Be determined and respect one another and communicate. We have been in a few arguments and I know there will be more to come. We want to be high school sweethearts, pure in love and faithful to one another (we might stay together or separate, but we know there would be a reason to whatever happens). This is my culture and his morals.

    He loves me not for my race or appearance but who I am and my culture! That, I want in a guy! And keep in mind, it’s not always what you want, but what the girl wants too. She might want someone else, but it’s okay, because there is always someone who will love you forever!

    I didn’t mean any disrespect or “trolling” on this article, but since you asked, I might as well give you my point of view as an Asian female myself 🙂

  • lmao

    6,124 marriages is quite a minuscule number and then just 50% are with ”western” men makes the number even more tiny , maybe you should post the percetange of interracial marriages of thailand as a whole and not just a district.

  • Adrian Bailey

    Your comments and descriptions are so completely on target much more than some of your readers might suggest including the female readers. I’m American and was married to an American girl for 28 years and I must add that she was a step above most Western girls but never-the-less was still of the Western culture and mindset.

    My job or work had me traveling and working in different parts of Asia for 25 years during which I would take short breaks or vacations remaining somewhere in Asia.

    During my previous marriage I would try to bring my wife and kids along to travel and experience what I thought would be the greatest gift I could give them in cultural education. For a few short years my wife and daughter would come along but later seemed to gain some animosity towards the Asian culture. More than they were already taught to have.

    About a year after my divorce my life began to fall apart and I really had no place to go so I would continuously visit Thailand, the Philippines, China and others as well as an occasional visit to European countries. I met my current wife (Thai) during one of my stays, later marrying her and have remained married for 6 years so far. All I can really say is that she’s an angel from Heaven and that she likely saved my life.

    I’m not an easy guy to live with I know and my Thai wife and I often do not agree where I become needlessly angry because I’m looking for that “Western Woman Fight” and I always later feel so stupid and guilty because not one time ever has she done anything except to hold me and try with her almighty best to make me happy, so much so that I would sometimes ask her to quit trying to make me happy. I brought a lot of emotional and financial and family baggage into our relationship always thinking that as soon as the money was finished then so would the relationship be finished.

    I grew up in America being taught, and I still hear it quite often about the “Asian gold digger” attraction and I used to believe it myself and I was continuously and obviously on guard for it. Well the money ran out but my Thai wife still thinks that I created life. She’s absolutely beautiful in every way and her looks and skin do not require makeup but everyday she applies makeup and gets her hair done so that she can appear to me in her best possible way. She very strongly demonstrates her care and love for me at home and in public. She has more heart than all of the “Western” women I’ve ever known and she puts all of her heart into me.

    I absolutely 100% agree with your assessment and opinion and if anything, you may have underestimated the quality a little, at least from what I’ve experienced.

    Just a note; we are very financially poor by American standards but it doesn’t seem to have any effect on her. I believe the key is that once she realized that I truly loved her and would make the sacrifices that I made to stay with her including going broke she blossomed into what most all of the Asian girls have the potential of doing. I know all of her girlfriends and they all have that same potential. She makes me smile even when I don’t want to smile.

    After 28 years of what I thought was a fairly good marriage I have only now begun to learn how powerful love really is. I’ve never known anyone back in America to be loved and cared for as much as she cares for me. It must simply be in their genetic code.

  • I believe when the statistics show that 50% of the marriages in Bangrak are to Western men, it is REALLY significant!

    -Dr. Love

  • lmao

    I wasn’t talking about thailand but now that you point thailands’s numbers out, 6,124 is quite a minuscule number fewer than what i thought.

  • lmao

    lmao this was so funny, it must be noted that only 1% of white men marry asian women so it seems most white men love white women way more than they love asians. (just like black men prefer black women, asian men prefer asian women, latin men prefer latin women, etc,etc) and most people agree white men with asian women are awkward, losers, old, etc, etc. It’s not just white women who say it.

    For the record im not white or asian but read this hilarious piece and had to say the truth.

    • I found this article that says the percentage is MUCH higher – it is not only 1%:

      “Statistics from the Bangrak district Office in Bangkok – the most popular administrative centre for marriage registration whose name is translated from Thai as “the district of love” – showed a remarkably high percentage of the cross-cultural marriages registered last year.

      “Out of the total 6,124 married couples registered at the Bangrak office in 2006, about 50 percent of them were Thai women and Western men. The number of cross-cultural marriages has been rising at around 10 percent or so every year over the past 25 years,” said Putichai Buranaprapa, chief of Bangrak District registration office.”

      -Dr. Love

  • Farang

    My favorite place on earth is asia. And could not agree more with Dean.

    My fiancee is from bali and before then i have had thai girlfriends and these people you cannot go wrong with them. they will respect you and your opinions but they have a strong character they love their family great mothers and will try and move haven and earth for them.

    in bali man is king but being brought up with the respect of woman and equality i treat her with respect and love that any other woman deserves and she loves it.

    Asian woman has a quality that some western woman has but that majority lack.

  • Wayne

    Hi i am a 54 yo Australian married to a 37 yo Chinese woman and yes you are correct in almost every detail,i see my male friends in Aus stuck in loveless marriages begging for sex from an overweight poorly presented woman who is never satisfied no matter how hard he works or what he provides, most of these women resent me and their husbands keep telling me how much they love their wife to justify the situation their stuck in while trying to negotiate a way to play golf or go to the pub with their mates, so they can have a few moments of joy in their life.

  • LiYing

    Etant Asiatique, je me sens flattée de lire certains compliments figurant ci-dessus. Il est vrai que dans ma vie jusqu’ici j’ai eu de la chance de côtoyer des hommes (européens) ayant su m’apprécier à ma juste valeur. Cela étant,et je m’adresse à la gente masculine, ne généralisez pas. Même parmi les femmes asiatiques, il existe (merci, ce n’est qu’une minorité), des femmes asiatiques cupides, stupides, irréfléchies et dont le comportement laisse à désirer….

    translated: Being Asian, I feel flattered to read some compliments listed above. It is true that in my life until I had the chance to interact with men (Europeans) knew me to enjoy my true value. However, and I speak to the male sex, do not generalize. Even among Asian women, there is (thank you, this is a minority), Asian Women greedy, stupid, thoughtless and whose behavior is poor ….

  • AsianWomenLover

    White men love Asian women because they’re freakin’ beautiful! Weather smiling or pouting, Asian women are so damn adorable that you can’t help but love them. I’m speaking from experience. 🙂

  • AsianwomaninAmerica

    There are some things that I agree in this article. Even though I’m an Asian American (born and raised), I still have some traditions that runs deep in me. I’m not sure if I agree with number two. I’m shy and will open up if you engage in a friendly way, but I also look “mean” when I’m not that mean, really. It’s important to consider other factors beside saying “Western women are this and that” because I am a private person. Most people DO mistaken me as someone who don’t like them at first (according to my friends they felt this way at first), but I am very loyal to you once you are in my life.

    I agree with number 3,4, and 5. I take pride in managing my household and I do keep my guest well-fed. It is part of my culture to feed my guest with food. I appreciate the good things about my culture and disregard the negative things about my culture. I really do place high value on relationships. Although I am more of a peacemaker (middle child), I am still opinionated and self-sufficient.

    Number 8 and 9 are true in some ways, especially if they are spiritually rooted or grounded from childhood. These days Asians in America are all about having fun, being independent (nothing is wrong with this but mixing the idea of feminist and independent rubs people the wrong way), and they don’t appear to seem different from the Western culture. I consider myself as someone who is spiritually rooted and someone who is hardworking. A lot of my Asian friends are hardworkers and they do believe that it’s important to support and help the family while they are around. The younger generation feel that it’s more important to have fun rather than helping their family out. There is nothing wrong having fun IF you can balance work and play. My sister and I are only one year apart and we have different mentality about family, culture, and relationships.

    I think my own concern about this article is generalizing Western women as horrible beings with attitude, spoil-rotten, and worse-than-the-rest-of-mankind. I can testify that there are a lot of good Asian women in America who fit these lists, and of course, there are Asian women who has nasty attitude, are into themselves, and would rather die single than to be with a guy who has a good heart.

  • William Silkwood

    I know one thing is true, a caucasian(white) male is more acceptable with an asian female in our times today.

    Black men and white women are still stared at, and Black women with a white guy is still stared at like they are aliens.

    Asain women are like delicate sweet Butterfies to western men, how can we catch one.

  • Nate

    In the U.S., Far East Asian women who grew up in Asia rarely have a dog or cat to occupy their affection, except for those who’ve hooked up with a white guy who likes dogs.

    Furthermore, around 1995 there was a “study” – “researchers” asked American women who had a dog and a man, which would they would keep if they had to get rid of one. About 68% said they’d prefer to keep the dog.

  • Jeff

    I’m not interested in Asian women.

  • JW

    I can’t help but to think that the proliferation of Asian porn beginning in the late 1990’s on the internet has not had an effect on young American men. I hate to sound crass but I really think there is something to this.

    A lot of white guys have always liked Asian women, but after seeing and fantasizing about beautiful sexy Asian women it’s not surprising more white guys are hooking up with Asian women all the time.

    I live in San Francisco where guys are either gay or have Asian girlfriends. I have been married to an Asian female for ten years.

    I completely agree with the above article.

  • love People

    You have an issue in your head. You sounds racist and ignorant. Please stop making generalization. Color is not important. Black, white, asian.. you have a fetish issue and your head is crazy like most americans watching too much TV

  • Cassie

    You had me until the last comment. That was one of the most [@#$%&*] comments I’ve heard in a while. As a young woman who always loves to be made up even when I make a quick run to the grocery store, and as a pageant girl from birth, I’m going to say that expecting your wife to constantly be made up is ridiculous.

    I’ve been married for 5 yrs and we have a 20 month old son and let me tell you my husband loves me better without makeup. Granted i still kept my figure right after giving birth but i sure as hell don’t keep my makeup on at home!!!

    • Fuel

      well, in defense, Asian girls, at least the ones I see everyday, are much lighter on the makeup that most western girls who have makeup as 50% of their face.

  • chan

    I am Malaysian chinese woman.i agree with the say that we Asian woman are great.i love to smile not only to foreigner but everyone around me.i believe too every woman are beautiful,there a say in chinese ” there no ugly woman ..except the lazy one”.

  • I would say that what you said is true because I am a Filipino. And I am amazed a handsome foreigner wed a Filipino woman who is not so beautiful. But why, it’s not the face but the personality of the gal which makes a foreigner wed her. Sometimes we Filipino says that the women hook that man and had gotten a big fish or a man with lots’ of money. But that’s not the face but personality and in our language it is “Malambing” which means very caring and understanding! And another thing is that almost all Filipina knows how to cook and do all the chores at home.

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