I find it very interesting to watch all the different forms of scamming that people get into in different low-pay countries, just because they think all men from Western nations are rich.
New Translation Love Scam from China
I will try to report the latest scams in my blog here. But, feel free to send me any email you have with information about new scams, if you see something interesting.
The latest scam from China involves some very innocent looking – but pretty – girls from China.
First they will send you a few simple emails in English, but then quickly try to get you to sign into one of their free membership sites – AsianSweetLove. But, the catch is you must pay money to translate each email to the girl!
This is particularly gross since you can use the free web site from Google Translate that works wonders. If you need to translate any love letters or email in Chinese or Thai for a girl that speaks little English, just use the free Google translate service. It is not a 100% perfect in translation, but it is certainly 95% – or enough to make any girl understand your meaning.
I even use the Google translation web site when I am online chatting with an Asian girl, in real time. The girls are normally very impressed when I send Chinese or Thai sentences over Yahoo! messenger or MSN. (smile)
Free Google Translation to Chinese and Thai
With this Chinese love-scam it is very possible that no girl is receiving your romantic emails, but this is probably an internet sweat-shop with rows of people hovering over their computers, solely interested in fleecing your Western valet to collect some money.
Be aware and stay away from these web sites. I do not know anything positive – or real love, that comes from this.
However, these girls always look so cute! – I wish they were really available online for chatting and more. So sad, but I guess that is why so many guys get sucked in. (smile)
- Doctor Smile
I had been writing to a number of ladies from the chnlove site I then decided to try Chinese kisses web site. I found 3 of the ladies for chnlove there. These ladies had been send me messages telling me how much they thought of me and they all loved me and hoped we would marry one day.
I wrote a short message to each one on Chinese kisses saying I would like more contact at this time I did not say anything about chnlove. I received replies from them. I then wrote back telling them how much I had enjoyed their loving messages on chnlove and hopped we continue to build our relationship on the new site. So far I have not heard back from any of them but received yet another loving message on chnlove from one of them expressing her love for me I did not bother to buy more credits. The whole chnlove thing is a scam although I did manage to get the personal email off 1 other lady on chnlove but neither she nor I know how and I have had many conversations with her .If I do hear from any others I will let you know
I’ve been getting contacts from Asian gals on plentyoffish.com and decided to do a google to see if there were scams with these gals and sure enough (as expected) I see that there are. Red flags that I’ve noticed on the e-mails are the ads say the lady is 48 but the lady in the photo couldn’t be more than 30. (I’m 55).
Another red flag I noticed is that many times after a long post to the “gal” I’d get a simple “ok”. This I’ve found is a common response from the African Gyana scammers so I think they might have got in on the action.
As mentioned, unless you can chat by webcam in real time I wouldn’t put much into a chat conversation. Anybody can be anybody on chat. So, if you were to go over there and find a nice gal AND marry her (which would be crazy in my opinion unless you had talked with her for many months) then what kind of process is it to get her to the USA and have papers made up for her? I know it is a tedius expensive process but might be worth the while for the right gal.
My brother married a Korean gal who was already in the states and he’s as happy as he’s EVER been with her.
I think that’s the thing I like the most about the Asian gals is the fact that they’re not scared to work in gardens, clean their own houses and make fantastic love to their husbands and still generally want their husbands to be the boss of the house, kinda like it was in the older days in the US before all this equality stuff which is why I think the divorce rate is so high in the US these days.
Yes, always get a girl on a web cam as soon as possible to verify identity. She could be a “guy” working in an internet shop in Africa. If she can not go to internet shop and pay US $0.25 for 30 mins of web cam chat, then move on to the next lady on your list.
Also, do not ever send money to people you have not met. This is rule #1.
Hi
I am Indian (living in Australia) and I met this Chinese girl from Shaadi.com (Indian matrimonial website) who lives in Shenzhen. She is not very good looking, in her mid thirties. We chatted over the net for more than 3 months now and I am planning to go to China to meet her (Including phone, gTalk and also web cam). She was helpful in getting me the VISA by sending invitation letter and also by sending her ID card copy. From the talks I had feeling that she is really street smart and self-dependent girl. She also is living by herself and asked me to come to her place directly. She also proposes to visit some countryside to-gether. I have the positive feeling about everything until a few days ago when I came across some of the “frauds” and “scams” stories on the internet. I also got some advise from my close friends for either drop this idea or being extra careful like – Do NOT, NEVER stay at her place and also do NOT go to the countryside places with her (If you want do a group booking). Now, I am worried whether this is some sort of a mega-scam or something. I know it seems odd inspite of my positive feelings mixed with these blogs that might have been completely unnecessary. Please suggest.
Thanks in advance.
She sounds genuine. I would not be worried and have traveled to Shenzhen several times to meet girls, and never had any trouble.
But, I strongly recommend you spend the first night in your own hotel room so you can relax and get familiar with the new culture. I would then go and visit her place on the second day, without moving your luggage from the hotel to check out her apartment and living area. It could be nice, or it could be a noisy neigborhood full of chickens and noisy motorbikes, making it impossible to sleep in the morning.
Just use common sense as all cities have good and bad people. My experience in Shenzhen has all been good, and the people I met there.
I have been using this site for about a month and have met some nice ladies.
One provided her email and QQ address and we have been talking including video chat on QQ nearly every day for the past 2 weeks.She has not asked for money and has answered any question I have asked. She tells me the she had to pay 10000yuan to join the site and then a yearly fee to the agency so sometimes I think the ladies get ripped off to. She also tells me the agencies recuit women from the rural areas with poor education and use them to get money these ladies have limited access to internet or their ability to read and write so poor that they are only able to go though the agency. the lady admited to me her photos were a few years old but she is still a nice looking woman.try to find a woman prepared to give you at least an email address but a QQ address will give you the chance to video chat and there is a buit in translator